and Tim dumping snow on Garrett...Here are a couple more notables some of the boys and some of just things around outside.



Tim, Jenifer, Garrett and Jaxon.

Garrett had a blast this year. I decided to take him to the mall with my friend Tanna and her son and daughter and that worked out really well. We got there early enough it wasn't too busy and we got to do the whole circuit. He ended up handing over his shield and helmet so I got to wear those along with carrying Jaxon around the mall. We got to see some great costumes, there was a 2 year old dressed as Chewbacca, an adult stormtrooper and an adult Darth Vader who had those great deluxe type costumes.


Tim, how do I describe this man? I love him and there are days where yes I'd love to kick him to the curb for being who he is, yet I do find myself loving him unconditionally. We met while we were both attending the University of Idaho. This is a man who moved to Washington to be with me! His hometown is quite beautiful (Sandpoint, ID). I am grateful that he loves me as much as he does. Some things you may not know about him is that he's quite crafty. He'll be humble about it but I am constantly impressed with the amount of crafty things he does without patterns!! I've uploaded a couple pictures of his creations. This is a great picture of him because I think it shows how much he enjoys his role as a father. There is nothing fake in his smile. Tim also enjoys photography and in fact takes many of the pictures we have of our family. The one here to the right was taken by a co-worker/friend of his who does this as a hobby. On to Tim's projects:


. Garrett was a happy baby and started sleeping through the night early. As a toddler he would shock and amaze me with the things he knew. He could say juice and cheese and could point to several different body parts, he communicated very well non verbally. Then things went downhill, I started noticing that Garrett was not developing like other children. Now I know we aren't supposed to compare because each child is different and so on, but let's be realistic here who doesn't? And if you didn't how would you know something is wrong? Anyways after many urgings from both a cohort member (schoolmate) and his daycare teacher I took him to Holly Ridge which is an early intervention center. They determined that Garrett was delayed cognitively and in his speech (more isgnificantly in his speech). They did tell me that they felt his cognitive delays could be a result of his speech and not actual delays. So he started pre-school at the tender age of 3 and I have been ever so grateful! The first year was rough many crying sessions and uncooperative behavior. This year we discussed at his IEP (indivdualized education program) that maybe he should take the bus. My only concern was that he wouldn't want to or wouldn't get on at school (or get off the bus) but my fears were unrealized when the bus pulled up on that first day and he ran to get on. All he talks about now is riding the bus to school. There were some concerns that Garrett had Autism. After doing a lot of reading and talking to the parent of a son with
autism I decided that he doesn't exhibit the strongest indicators, but that there is something there. Unfortunately I can not afford to pay out of pocket expenses and due to my oversight he will not have medical coverage until Oct. So we wait. In the meantime his language has grown in leaps and bounds, he recognizes that people have names and is starting to use them appropriately.
He is my little cutie pie. He's also so attached to my hip it's a little insane. He's the most social baby I've known. But he seems to only really care for women. You would never have known that he's such a mommy guy when we were at Great-grandpa Wright's house because he was just as happy with great-aunt Debbie, Denise, or Susie or even with Grandma. I think his need is to be social, he's fine without me but not alone. He'll get upset if Garrett leaves the room. I have to share a story though that I think is going to shape the nature of their relationship. Garrett loves Jaxon to death (almost literally) he keeps picking him up, unfortunately Garrett tries to carry Jaxon like most pre-schoolers carry cats around, by holdin
g them around the neck. So I hear Jaxon sputtering and tell Garrett to put him down which fails so I scold Garrett loudly and he finally puts him down. I pick up Jaxon to make sure he's okay and tell Garrett in a loud voice that he is to NEVER ever pick up Jaxon. In the meantime Jaxon has this look on his face that I can only describe as satisfaction. Which has me concerned...of course I could be wrong Jaxon is only a baby and doesn't know how sibling relationships work yet right? I know you're looking at these pictures and wondering where the blond hair comes from, I ask myself that question everyday. I thought for sure I wouldn't have any blond children since the primary genes I carry are dominate ones, brown hair brown eyes. But I guess the blondie genes from Tim's side and my side won. Both Tim and I have blond brothers, although Dan's hair (Tim's brother) is darker than Jonathans. Jaxon's blond hair did take me by surprise though. I was taking his picture and I looked at it afterwards and thought "my goodness when did he get blond hair?!" I also love the light feathery hair both him and Garrett had as babies. Got to love the "wings" near his ears.